Category: Sexuality
Posts on the sexual self — desire, intimacy, embodiment, and the relationship between sexual life and the rest of who we are.
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The Sex Dilemma
It comes as a clear revelation to me in the middle of a night when I’m sick as a dog and my head is foggy with cough syrup: I can fuck anyone I want. Okay, with the exception of The Treat, who’s off-limits. But yes, anyone I want. From the Bookshelf A Reverence for Trees…
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Observations on Sex, Life, and Rock-n-Roll (but Mostly on Life)
From the upcoming book, Third Degree and Rising; Originally published in 2007. Observations…. From the Bookshelf Give Your Life Direction — 23 life-coaching tips to get unstuck and moving again. Available direct from the author → – Not all sex toys are dishwasher safe. – Thanks to the girls’ not keeping the puppy out of…
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These Men Are Gifts
“In your search for love, you’ve helped a lot of people,” my daughter says as we walk along the fields of the farm in Georgia where we’ve evacuated for Hurricane Gustav. She’s been away at college for several weeks, so I fill her in on my suddenly very active social life since she’s been gone.…
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A Sexual Revolution of My Own
My own personal sexual revolution did not arrive with a fanfare of one-night stands or birth control prescriptions or discreetly wrapped sex toys delivered via UPS. It crept up quietly as, in the wake of my divorce, I had a few surprises pointed out to me about myself that I had not realized, and then…
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Chakras: The Root Connection Between Survival and Spirituality
I’m quite sure most people think I look at things quite differently. I think they’re right. I hung up the phone tonight after a fascinating one-hour phone conversation of “romantical nature” and thought, Wow, his root chakra’s REALLY active! For the second time in a row, my weekend plans with Maverick have fallen through, due…
