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How to Tell What a Stranger (or First Date) Is Insecure About

September 3, 2010 · by Lorna Tedder · in Relationships

A night-time walk by the marsh…full moon…fireflies…cat-tails.  Photo  by Lorna Tedder   With most strangers,  you can nod and be polite and never have to find out anything more about them, let alone where their insecurities lie. …

The Ball’s in his Court?

April 28, 2010 · by Lorna Tedder · in Relationships, Starting Over

Photo credit by Isobel T; creative commons license. I’ve been divorced long enough that few people tell me what to do anymore, or how to do it, or –heaven forbid—how to play the game.  Maybe…

Attracting the Wrong Kind of People, and Why

February 20, 2010 · by Lorna Tedder · in Law of Attraction, Positive Thinking, Relationships, Serene Living

Photo credit by -RobW-; creative commons license From the upcoming book, 23 Ways I Screwed Up My Life  with the Law of Attraction—and How I Fixed It I had a date with a  man I…

Attracting a Happy Man (aka, the Craigslist Dating Experiment)

January 5, 2010 · by Lorna Tedder · in Law of Attraction, Relationships

Why is this man trying to cut off his tongue with his fingers?  Just another potential date from Craigslist…. Even more so than easy money, people want to use the Law of Attraction to attract…

Don’t Worry about People from Your Past

October 2, 2008 · by Lorna Tedder · in Law of Attraction, Personal Evolution, Positive Thinking, Relationships, Serene Living

Photo  credit by Corey Templeton; creative commons license   “There comes a time in your life when you realize who will always matter, who does matter, and who never did.  So don’t worry about people…

Is Everyone 85% Your Perfect Match?

September 4, 2008 · by Lorna Tedder · in Law of Attraction, Relationships

Photo by  toastyken; creative commons license. In the almost 4 years I’ve been divorced, I’ve been told repeatedly that I’m too picky.   Last month, I was told that in an entirely different way by a Law…

These Men Are Gifts

September 2, 2008 · by Lorna Tedder · in Astrology, Positive Thinking, Relationships

Photo by Abhi Ryan; creative commons license.   “In your search for love, you’ve helped a lot of people,” my daughter says as we walk along the fields of the farm in Georgia where we’ve…

My Generation Is from Another Country

August 30, 2008 · by Lorna Tedder · in Personal Evolution, Positive Thinking, Relationships

“So,” he whispers over the phone in a voice like melted chocolate, “how long have you lived here?” I can imagine his eyes glinting in the starlight, darker than sin and even fuller, and…he has no…

3 Nuggets of Truth: Secrets, Facades, and Doubt

July 30, 2008 · by Lorna Tedder · in Personal Evolution, Positive Thinking, Relationships, Serene Living

Photo by sylvar; creative commons license. “Just watch what happens next,” my angels and spirit guides tell me.  “Just watch how this all unfolds.” That whisper of intuition in my ear in the middle of…

Putting the Happily in Ever After

July 29, 2008 · by Lorna Tedder · in Law of Attraction, Personal Evolution, Positive Thinking, Relationships

Photo by Euromagic; creative commons license I’ve really been paying attention to how most people tend to expect the worst and how some of the more positive and happy people I know either   1.  Actively…

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