Tag: truth

  • What It Is Wednesday: The Truth Will Set You Free

    What It Is Wednesday: The Truth Will Set You Free

    FB Memories are often a good memory jogger for me. The photo below was 6 weeks into my first “100happydays” experiment of looking for those joyous little moments in life. Though I’m not almost a year into my second “100happydays” experiment–I didn’t want to quit because of the great value in it for me–I abandoned…

  • As Good as your Word:  Anything You Say Can and Will Be Held Against You

    As Good as your Word: Anything You Say Can and Will Be Held Against You

    I believe that a person’s word should be good enough. I refuse to put my hand on a Bible and swear to tell the truth. I refuse to swear to tell the truth, period. I believe that my word is good enough. In fact, I find the act of having to “swear” I’m telling the…

  • Sad Revelations

    Sad Revelations

    Copyrighted by Lorna Tedder. Originally published in Love in the Third Degree. Sometimes it takes a while for confirmation to show up. That’s often such a long time that most of us decide our intuition was dead wrong and we should just forget all about it. Or not. Sometimes it stays with us, in the…

  • Confession Time

    Confession Time

    I have something to confess that I’ve never said before, at least not in this way. From the Bookshelf Unapologetically Happy — 23 lessons from a life reimagined, and your permission slip to find happiness on your own terms. Available direct from the author → There is a woman I’ve been afraid of for a…

  • Can You Look at Yourself in the Mirror?

    Can You Look at Yourself in the Mirror?

    Self-Portrait, April 2010 I will believe in honor. I will not become jaded. From the Bookshelf Shielding Techniques for Empaths — practical protection against negative energy for the person who feels everything. Available direct from the author → I will not lose my compassion. I will not be a victim. I will conduct my relationships…

  • My Kingdom for an Honest Man!

    My Kingdom for an Honest Man!

    I have developed a tremendous appreciation for honest men. Not honesty wielded as a weapon or as a shield but more like a cup of clear water for a thirsty woman. Relationships are the best place to see honesty in action—and the different interpretations of honesty and the different rationales for deception. Abuse is never…

  • When Not to Keep a Secret

    When Not to Keep a Secret

    Keeping secrets can be dangerous. It’s not that they can’t be kept, but if they’re kept at a price, then that price tends to manifest into something harmful. Though I’m fairly open myself and have very few secrets, I still know and keep many secrets that aren’t harmful to me, but there’s a difference in…

  • The Irony of Truth

    The Irony of Truth

    Someone recently accused me of lying about something, and the true irony was that, of all the people involved, I was the only one who wasn’t lying. That accusation actually hurt my feelings—a lot—because I’d insisted on honesty and openness from the very beginning and thought I’d established a fine history of truth and trust…

  • The Policy of Truth

    The Policy of Truth

    Shannon and Lorna, Thanksgiving 2006 in Destin– where will we be this year for Thanksgiving?! “You had something to hide; Should have hidden it, shouldn’t you? Now you’re not satisfied With what you’re being put through.” — Depeche Mode’s “Policy of Truth” Many years ago, I had a friend who had based most of his…

  • Ritual Results:  How Could I Have Missed the Truth?

    Ritual Results: How Could I Have Missed the Truth?

    Well, of course. That’s me, hitting the heel of my palm against my forehead in a gesture reminiscent of Cyndi Lauper’s “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun” video from the early 80’s. How could I have missed it? The emotional Tower Card of the past few days has been about trust. Scorpio Full Moons are good…