Weâ€™re Mutating? So Thatâ€™s Whatâ€™s Wrong With Me!
Copyrighted by Lorna Tedder. Originally published in Third Degree Burn.
â€œWhatâ€™s wrong with kids these days?â€ a former college friend complains. â€œTodayâ€™s teenagers are nothing like I was.â€
Sheâ€™s right about that, but itâ€™s still ironic to hear her gripe Â about the next generation. I happen to know that she spentÂ mostÂ ofÂ herÂ youthÂ doingÂ QuaaludesÂ andÂ upside-down margaritas every Saturday night she could convince our favorite club to let her in with her fake ID. I also remember how ruthlessly cruel she could be to me, both in our high school and collegeÂ years,Â becauseÂ IÂ wasÂ differentÂ fromÂ theÂ otherÂ kidsÂ and somewhat of an outcast for the way I thought.
Itâ€™s even stranger that I feel a stronger kinship to todayâ€™s teens than to my own generation. The quickest way for me to feel like an outcast again is to try to date a man in his forties. Itâ€™s the same thought processes I remember from my teen years, all conformity and boring Â attitudes and coloring within the lines. Bleah. Iâ€™ve known for a long time that I was either born ahead of my time or destined to blaze a trail for Â those who would come later.
But my old college friend is right about kids today being different. They are. Thank Gods.
I first noticed it several months ago when my 15-year- old brought some friends over. Unlike my own generation, her friends thought Â my house was cool with its Cernunnos door- knocker, an altar in every Â room, the gargoyle on the wall, the wand collection on the wall, the runes Â painted over the door- way. But what astonished me was how much they Â loved the crystals and rocks. And how quickly they felt the vibrations in the stones.
When I first discovered Wicca, I heard many other Goddess followers talk about feeling vibrations in stones and crystals. Not me. I could pick up a high-vibe stone like an amethyst and feelâ€¦nothing. Just a rock. Nothing special. It didnâ€™t speak to me. But Iâ€™d also learned to deal with being different by tamping down my gifts. I could function in my world by keeping my odder qualities quiet and forcing myself to fit Â someone elseâ€™s mold, and hating every minute of it.
One day, at a community festival, I passed a tent where a vendor had spread hundreds of crystals. As I walked near one of the tables, a zing shot through my hands. It felt like one of the rocks calling to me and I followed it to a chunk of light blue crystal known as celestite. Itâ€™s a Â beautiful, Â calming stone thatâ€™s wonderful for healing. I picked it up and it felt like the fluttering heartbeat Â of a sparrow in my palm. After that, I understood what to look for and now feel vibrations easily. But it took re- learning to open that door.
Not so for my own mutant spawn. They feel the vibrations; they sense the energies. They have their own intuitive and empathic gifts. Iâ€™ve had quite a few teens, a 21-year-old guy, and several men and women in their 30â€™s in my home, and they not only feel what moves in the Ether but Â see it as well. Angels, shapes, long-dead grandparents, fairies, orbs. The older they are, the more they tend to keep their gifts hidden, mostly Â because they, like me, have been criticized for being different.
But Iâ€™m becoming less different every day. Not that Iâ€™m fitting in better with my generation, but more people are coming into this world who are like me.
Todayâ€™s teens feel thereâ€™s no new territory for them to conquer, Â nothing that my generation hasnâ€™t already done and done to the limit Â and Â beyond. What they donâ€™t understand is that they are the new territory. Our species is mutating. Some of us came along earlier and were misunderstood. Now the same people who labeled me an outcast are parents of others like me and itâ€™s their children who are now Â misunderstood, overmedicated, and searching harder than anyone in my own generation ever did. My fellow students self-medicated with drugs, alcohol, and sex. Thatâ€™s not enough anymore. The upper chakras have been Â activated Â and Â itâ€™s Â impossible Â to Â fulfill Â their Â needs Â with lower chakra palliatives.
Thereâ€™s a term for these â€œdevelopingâ€ mutant humansâ€” theyâ€™re called Indigo Children. The name refers to the color of their aura. Iâ€™ve been told that my own aura (Iâ€™m more clairaudient than clairvoyant and rarely see auras) is a light blue, the color of celestite, though it radiates a brilliant white when Iâ€™m invoking the Goddess.
Though some Indigo Children have come early, like me, now itâ€™s the majority of children born who are Indigo. Their behaviors are different, according to daycare workers and teachers. Theyâ€™re more difficult to handle, often diagnosed with Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) or Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). Theyâ€™re highly creative and often have unusual intuitive gifts their parents donâ€™t understand. They seem to have more Â behavioral problems and a definite problem sitting still and accepting what theyâ€™re told.
Well, of course. All that energy theyâ€™re feeling and not knowing Â how to cope with itâ€¦it must be channeled some- where.
Jan Tober and Lee Carrollâ€™s book, The Indigo Children: The New Kids Have Arrived, presents the characteristics of an Indigo Child. My elder daughter and I have 19 of the 21 traits and my younger Â daughter Â has Â 17. Â Itâ€™s Â proposed Â that Â 10 Â traits Â mean youâ€™re probably an Indigo and 15 or more is almost definitely an Indigo. So I took the test myself.
1. Â Did I come into the world acting like royalty? Yes. It was several years before my father emotionally abandoned me and I no longer felt like royalty.
2. Â 2. Do I have a feeling of deserving to be here? Yes.
Always. Iâ€™ve always felt I had a mission, a huge and dire purpose in life, that I would do something really important that would make a difference in the world
3. Â Do I have an obvious sense of self? Oh, yeah. And Iâ€™d rather be dead than to give up who I am. Â Been there.
4. Â Do I have difficulty with discipline and authority?
Most definitely. Though I grew up under the thumb of Â a Â domineering Â father Â and Â a Â religion Â that Â took greatÂ Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â pleasureÂ Â Â inÂ Â squelchingÂ Â anyÂ Â Â independent thought, I rebelled quietly until I could give it voice.
5. Â Do you refuse to do certain things you are told to do? You better believe it. And the more you try to force me to do it Â anyway, the more Iâ€™ll dig in and refuse, come Hell or high water.
6. Â Is waiting in line torture for you? Oh, my Gods, yes!
Yes! I know I have no patience, but waiting in line is the Â ultimate Â waste Â of Â life. Â Youâ€™ll Â never Â catch Â me waiting in Â line Â at the bank or the doctorâ€™s office without a pen and Â paper or cell phone or book or something. I canâ€™t bear to just sit/stand and wait. Itâ€™s got to be one of the worst Â punishments I can receive.
7. Â AreÂ you Â frustratedÂ byÂ ritual-orientedÂ systems Â that require Â little Â creativity? Â Yes. Â And Â if Â I Â can Â shake somebody up, Â thatâ€™s my missionâ€¦to challenge the status quo!
8. Â Do Â you Â see Â better Â ways Â to Â do Â things Â at Â home, school, or Â work? Absolutely. Iâ€™ve made a career of coming Â up Â with Â better Â processesâ€¦or Â eliminating them altogether.
9. Â Are you a non-conformist? Yep. But when I was a teen, my teachers used to make notes on my permanent record that I didnâ€™t conform. How ironic that they told me to be myself, yet what they meant was to be the self they wanted me to be.
10. Do you refuse to respond to guilt trips? I do now, but for Â most of my life, no. Combination of long- suffering parents and the Baptist Church.
11. Do you get bored rather easily with assigned tasks?
Yes. I must have variety. Same goes for relation- ships. I have difficulty throwing myself into relation- ships where I canâ€™t be creative or canâ€™t find an intellectual challenge.
12. Do you have symptoms of Attention Deficit Disorder? Yes. Suggested by a counselor. Never officially diagnosed, but I have most of the symptoms except that I donâ€™t generally Â forget appointments. I have lots of great coping mechanisms though so it never hindered my grades or ability to hold a job.
13. Are you particularly creative? Annoyingly so. Just ask anyone.
14. Do you display intuition? Yes, lots. I donâ€™t like to consider Â myself psychic because I canâ€™t turn it on and off, but itâ€™s thereâ€¦itâ€™s there. No denying it any- more.
15. Do you have strong empathy for others? Yes, and as of this Â year, my empathic gift has taken definitive form as a medical empathy. The hardest part is trying not to feel what others feel.
16. Did you develop abstract thinking very early? Yes.
Enough so that my parents were often accused of doing my homework when in fact, they had no idea what I was talking about.
17. Are you very intelligent? Yes.
18. Are you very talented or gifted? Yes.
19. Are you a daydreamer? Oooooh, yeah
20. Do you have very old, deep, wise-looking eyes? I donâ€™t think so, though for the past year or so, Iâ€™ve been told thereâ€™s a look of wisdom in my eyes now. I just think of it as knowing better these days.
21. Do you have spiritual intelligence? Yes.
Wow. Okay, I guess Iâ€™m a mutant after all. Someday, when Iâ€™m 90 years old, maybe Iâ€™ll finally fit in with the rest of the planet.