Attracting Back Old Lovers: Why There’s No Way in Hell He’s Coming Back Right Now

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I know, I know.  You’ve searched out every obscure Law of Attraction text you can find, all in the hopes of discovering the secret to attracting back that guy you loved and lost.  And no matter how many vision boards you make, or candles you burn, or helium-filled balloons with your intentions attached by string  are released to the skies, nothing’s working.

He’s not coming back.  Or at least, he’s not coming back right now. That’s not to say that you won’t be together again in some kind of relationship—maybe even better than the last one—but right now, nothing is happening because you’re not aligned with one another.    To use that overused buzz word, your vibrations are not at the same level or frequency.   Or maybe a better term would be wattage.

Have you ever bought a lamp and as soon as you got home with it, you realized it required a certain kind of bulb.  Not only that, but there’s a sticker on the lamp that says, “Do not use bulbs over 25 watts.”   What happens if you screw in a 75-watt bulb?  It usually doesn’t fit, but you may have a fire hazard on your hands, too.   Or, if you’ve ever plugged in a hair dryer  and overloaded a circuit in the bathroom, you know that you suddenly have no electricity and a quick trip out to the fuse box.

It’s the same with how people align to one another.  And when they’re aligned, they will naturally attract each other and fit together best. In the case of attracting back long-lost lovers or attracting a specific person, one of the biggest mistakes I see is that people are not aligned and, even when they both really want it, they can’t seem to get together.   There are two reasons for this:

1. The other person is a dimmer bulb.

For example, Sara and James met when they had just exited similar bad situations with their families.  She had voluntarily left an abusive situation; he’d been kicked out of an abusive situation.  They were both shattered at the time and…

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