Tag: mindset
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Can You Be Spiritual if You Have Material “Stuff”?
“You cannot have a big house and lots of stuff and be spiritual,” the girl tells me. “You’re either materialistic or you’re spiritual but you can’t be both.” This is the eye-rolling wisdom of a girl who’s all of 22 and is, for the first time in her life, trying to make ends meet all…
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Little Gifts
Copyrighted by Lorna Tedder. Originally published in Love in the Third Degree. The Universe has been taking care of some odd little money issues for me recently. I’m amazed and excited. It also involves a different mindset of not expecting the worst. For the past couple of weeks, these little goodies have been almost a…
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Changing the Negative to Positive with Visual Aids
Copyrighted by Lorna Tedder. Originally published in Love in the Third Degree. I’m a visual kind of girl. Always have been. I need to be able to see what things look like, to take what’s in my mind’s eye and see it in front of me. It’s part of moving my desire from mental to…
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Changing What I Want and Thankful to Do So
With this year’s Thanksgiving, I’m changing what I want, but I’m thankful that the time in between has given me a chance to know better what I want for the longterm. Not that that’s been easy, but over the past couple of years, I have in fact gotten exactly what I asked for on many…
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7 Steps to Stop Hating Your Job (Part I)
Formerly my official photo. Bold power suit, conservative pearl earrings, and…an asymmetrical haircut in case no one knew I was a closet rebel. It took a long time to make peace with my job after I started hating it. Hating it didn’t happen overnight, and getting back to a place where I was comfortable with…
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“I’m Getting Old”…and Other Self-Talk that’s Really Bad for You
What was it you just said? “I’m getting old”? Or maybe, “I must be getting old and decrepit”? Rest assured, with that kind of self-talk, you’ll be feeling older than you are, faster than you can imagine. How can I wake you up from giving yourself the polar opposite of affirmations so that you don’t…
