Occasionally I get questions on the books sold through this site, particularly on ones I’ve written. I frequently write new articles that are related to some of these books and new insights that have arisen since they were published. Some of those articles will be incorporated into future editions, but for now, they’re [...]
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Know your vibration? Just summarize the qualities of your friends and relationships, and you’ll find your vibrational match.
One of the basic tenets of the Law of Attraction is that we attract to us that which is similar in “frequency.” The problem is, how do you figure out what [...]
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Cindy Lu’s The Four Man Plan: A Romantic Science dating guide offers advice that may help you attract back the love of your life—or at least attract a social life in the meanwhile.
The most difficult thing for people looking to “attract back” lost lovers is to stop fixating [...]
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Ah, the romantic relationship. You know the drill: undying love; promises to love each other and stay faithful to each other forever and ever; the quickly growing insecurities that your lover will find someone else more appealing and you’ll be left heart-broken and alone…or with a baby to [...]
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I don’t recall ever feeling better in my life than I do right now unless I was head-over heels in love or just hanging up from an editor’s call saying she wanted to publish my book or being wheeled out of the delivery room to see my newborn. [...]
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A man in my life made me cry today. He doesn’t know he made me cry or why, but it was a turning point for me as far as my level of trust and where I’m willing to go in our relationship. These were not tears of [...]
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Not caring can be a powerful thing. I don’t necessarily mean apathy—more of a conscious sense of not caring and simply allowing rather than stepping in to participate or force a change.
The first time I got a real sense of how empowering it could be to not care [...]
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Why is this man trying to cut off his tongue with his fingers? Just another potential date from Craigslist….
Even more so than easy money, people want to use the Law of Attraction to attract a special someone. They usually do, even when they get less than optimal results (see above photo for an example).
My [...]
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NASA photo: Supermassive black hole at center of Milky Way Galaxy, known as Sagittarius A*
Not long ago but long enough ago, in a serene little home I call my own, I fell head over heels in love with someone I never expected to think twice about. I knew from that first moment that our time [...]
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If you cant trust your lover, mate, or friend, maybe you’re looking for The Big Reason to leave a relationship you no longer want to be in.
I hear so many people talking about how they can’t trust their mates, and I wonder now if it’s a matter of trust that causes them to not want [...]
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Can’t attract back an old lover or friend using the Law of Attraction? Maybe it’s YOU who changed.
When you’re trying to attract an old friend or lover back into your life and seem to be getting nowhere, consider that the other person may remain the same-and that it’s YOU who’s changed.
In this day of [...]
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There are times when you would never doubt your relationship with someone, yet it’s doubt that injures it …sometimes kills it. Not your own doubt, but doubt that is induced by the other person. Sometimes the relationship can be salvaged, and sometimes the doubt is too strong for too long.
I have seen this in myself [...]
Minding your own business seems like such a trite expression or even a cringe-worthy reprimand, but thanks to a few ex-friends, I’m in more of a live-and-let-live stance than I’ve ever been in before. More than anything, their gleeful shunning reminded me of how much I’ve changed in how and even whether I judge other [...]
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There’s an old saying about throwing good money after bad. It means that you’ve discovered something isn’t working but you continue to spend money on it, usually hoping that more money will improve on something useless or inefficient.
But what if it’s not money or anything physical? For me, it was [...]
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For years, I’ve been a little terrified of what it would mean when Uranus transitted my Natal Venus. If you’re not conversant in astrology, please understand that I tend to think of it as a language rather than a science and that it’s all about patterns with celestial bodies as the [...]
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When I first started my “What I Wish I Could Say” exercise three years ago, I had 30-something people I wanted to say something important to but for some reason could not. Sometimes it meant that they’d be too hurt by my honesty. Sometimes I feared for my job or the [...]
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One of biggest problems with attracting back a lover, friend, or some other “someone special” is that we as humans tend to focus more on the absence of that person than on appreciating the love that is already shared.
When a special man in my life was [...]
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In spite of the sheer hell that was all around us, I’ve been in relationships with men where what was between us was smooth, natural, and EASY. And beautiful. The bad part was having to deal with all the drama and stress caused by other people and other situations that [...]
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A lot to be thankful for! At Grayton Beach State Park (Florida) on Thanksgiving Day, 2008. c by Shannon Bailey
Funny how things happen. My daughter was supposed to be with her dad on this Friday night but he had a date so that meant either she spent the night at my house or got pawned [...]
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Pluto and Vertex in my Solar Return 5th house heralded my daughter’s arrival. Copyright 2008 by Aislinn Bailey.
If you’re not interested in astrology, just skip this post because it’ll be too obscure for you. If you are, or you want to see how such patterns apply to your own love life and when you’ll find [...]
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For the past year, I’ve used “going with the flow of energy” as a guideline for making the most of my efforts. On a very tiny scale, this principle was as simple as having a sudden urge to clean the house from top to bottom—and doing it while [...]
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For months, I’ve noticed how many people around me have trust issues, and I’ve also noticed that these trust issues didn’t just pop up over night. They’ve been there for years, through series of relationships, maybe all the way back to childhood. They’re still there because they’ve never been healed–only [...]
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I temporarily gave away my power and my happiness, and it’s taken the past week to get it back and get to my previous place of serenity. (Sort of–I’m not quite there yet because there are things unsaid that I cannot say now.) The truth is, I’d been watching my [...]
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It’s a perfect example of the Law of Attraction in action, but I tend to draw to me people who are or have been abuse victims. This was highlighted for me by The Elemental Muse (hi, Bev!) this week and through an intense EFT (tapping) session with AngelSu when I [...]
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The Hunter Moon, the full moon after the Harvest Moon, occurs in Aries on October 14, 2008 at 3:04 PM Central time here in the Florida Panhandle. Aries, as the first sign of the Zodiac, has its own themes of exuberance and fresh starts–think of a four-year-old boy [...]
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