Copyright by Lorna Tedder on August 22nd, 2010

For some reason, empaths and narcissists have become hot keyword searches for this website, no doubt because I’ve so often talked about my dealings with empaths (the real kind that feel others’ feelings) and narcissists (the real ones who’ve been diagnosed by a  professional, not people who are thinking of themselves and not you).  If [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on February 8th, 2010

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Every year around this time, I do a little life coaching exercise that’s featured in Give Your Life Direction.  The idea is to make a list of things I wish I could say but, for whatever reason, can’t.  Maybe because the other person is dead.  Maybe because it [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on November 25th, 2008

 
 
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When I was a little girl in a Southern Baptist church, the preachers often talked about how we’d all recognize each other when we got to heaven.  Even as a child, I had a few problems with the way this scenario was presented to me.  Sometimes we were told that [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on July 7th, 2008

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A spontaneous moment of genuine happiness.

I am suddenly living my life “in the open.” But that’s not quite the right analogy.
Queen of Metaphors that I am,  I am still searching for the best way to describe this new shift in my life toward even more brutal authenticity of emotion.  For [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on June 22nd, 2008

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With rain on the horizon, a lot of local Solstice rituals were cancelled because they were weather dependent. Or because it was just way too hot outside.  Neither was a problem for us.  The weather cooled down the moment the circle was cast, the mosquitoes we’d been slapping [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on May 24th, 2008

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The first thing people notice about me–the people who read just about everything I write–is that, in person, I’m actually not very talkative and when I do speak, I have a soft voice and a quiet manner.  Most people are surprised because they know I have a lot going on in my [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on May 22nd, 2008

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I am still working through the revelations of this Scorpio Moon, especially in regard to Trust and Truth. I am trying to figure out for myself why I have had such difficulty in trusting connections when communications fail (see previous post), trying to take it back to its earliest form to understand how [...]

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