Copyright by Lorna Tedder on February 18th, 2010

Balancing work with play at Grayton Beach State Park.  Photo credit:  Aislinn Bailey
Have you ever discovered that your intentions came true, just not in the way you planned?  Happens to me all the time.
A little over a year ago, I put the intention out there in a Law of Attraction exercise to take [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on February 17th, 2010

Originally published in Third Degree Ebb and Flow.
My third workshop for the Florida Pagan Gathering was fairly crowded. I never saw several of the attendees at anything else related to the weekend events. Maybe they were aliens or angels or something just dropping by!
In any case, that was the workshop on building worm holes, Field [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on February 11th, 2010

Today’s Book Spotlight is on Salt and Fire:  Cleansing and House Purification Rituals.  Lauren Hartford uses a “novel approach” to explaining how to perform a complicated (and possibly dangerous) ritual to cleanse your home.  All details are provided in the form of a short novella, covering the materials needed, the actual process, the [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on February 9th, 2010

Occasionally I get questions on the books sold through this site, particularly on ones I’ve written.  I frequently write new articles that are related to some of these books and new insights that have arisen since they were published.  Some of those articles will be incorporated into future editions, but for now, they’re [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on February 6th, 2010

My dearest, darling Lorna:

We are about to send you someone who will tell you some great and useful things, many of which you already know but need a new way of thinking about them… but the real gift will be more in what this man shows you than in what he [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on January 25th, 2010

Book cover for Working through Grief: Tips for Coping with the Pain of Loss

Traumatic experiences, grief, and loss can take a heavy toll. Death, dying, divorce, sexual abuse, and suicide aren’t things you just “get over.” You have to heal them from the inside out.
Forget everything you’ve heard about “getting over it” and coming [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on January 25th, 2010

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Cindy Lu’s The Four Man Plan: A Romantic Science dating guide offers advice that may help you attract back the love of your life—or at least attract a social life in the meanwhile.
The most difficult thing for people looking to “attract back” lost lovers is to stop fixating [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on July 6th, 2009

The Male Submissive has no problem purchasing a “submissive man” book for his domme or for seducing a dominant woman–as long as he can do it discreetly.
Here’s what happened.

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on June 11th, 2009

Can’t attract back an old lover or friend using the Law of Attraction? Maybe it’s YOU who changed.
When you’re trying to attract an old friend or lover back into your life and seem to be getting nowhere, consider that the other person may remain the same-and that it’s YOU who’s changed.
In this day of [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on February 23rd, 2009

The Long-Awaited Honest-to-God Secret to Being Happy
(Plus 23 More Tips for Living Your Joy)

Author: Lorna Tedder
Publisher: Spilled Candy Books
Available in pdf in a condensed format for easy reading/printing.
Ebook (PDF) $19.95 
Special for our blog readers:  $9.95  at http://www.spilledcandybookstore.com/The_Secret_To_Being_Happy.html
 

If you enjoy making others happy (or trying to) to the point of losing your own happiness—and [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on December 10th, 2008

Around the riverbend, life is sometimes pretty amazing.
Photo by Chan Worley, Copyright all rights reserved. Used with permission.
Inexplicably, things suddenly seem shinier than they have in previous years.  Given the state of the world at the moment—and the state of my current social trend toward being, well, unsociable after several of my dearest ones had [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on November 27th, 2008

I know, I know.  After everything you’ve heard about Kristin being all evil from those Generation Hex authors, you probably expected her new cookbook to be about newt eyes and Hansel and Gretel cookies, but nope, sorry.
Instead, you get 188 pages of really wonderful and different recipes that will keep you from ever having another [...]

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Continue reading about Kristin Madden's Pagan Celebrations Cookbook, Festival Feasts, Is Now Available!

Copyright by Lorna Tedder on November 17th, 2008

I’m not sure whether to be appalled or amused by the news, but one of Spilled Candy’s long-running books is apparently a bad influence.  Here’s the message I received from author Kristin Madden:
“When Pagan Parenting first came out, the Fundie Christian Right compared me (and MTV) to Hannibal Lecter.  Now a new book entitled, Generation Hex: [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on November 4th, 2008

About a decade ago,  my friend Vicki Hinze had a literary agent, Helen Breitweiser, who was a blast to be around.  Helen was young, hip, intelligent–and had a mouth on her.  That was part of her charm. (In my opinion, at least.)  One of her favorite phrases was to refer to someone’s literary masterpiece as being [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on October 22nd, 2008

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Not everyone keeps a Book of Shadows in the “traditional” way.  You know, the hardback tome of paper, perhaps even wrapped in some kind of animal hide or decorated with all sorts of magickal symbols. 
In my guest room, affectionately known as “Brian’s Room” because of his extended summer stays, I [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on September 19th, 2008

 

Highly recommended–here’s a beautiful book for the Autumn season, beginning today! 
Mabon: Pagan Thanksgiving (Revised)

Author:  Kristin Madden
Trade Paperback, 6×9, 280 pages
Publisher: Spilled Candy Publications
ISBN 978-1-892718-68-6

Acclaimed homeschooling author Kristin Madden shows adults, parents, teachers, and children how to celebrate the Autumn of the year with myths surrounding Mabon (the Harvest), customs and traditions from around the world, recipes, [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on August 27th, 2008

Photo from Summer 2007 when Spilled Candy Books had 30+ books in print, 15+ authors, before downsizing through a difficult family crisis immediately followed by hurtful allegations that were proven untrue.

There’s a saying—a wonderful ideal—that if you follow your bliss, you can make a ton of money.  There’s truth in that, but…not always. It assumes certain [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on August 24th, 2008

See that light blue dot in the panhandle?  That’s me.  My relatives are all pink and purple.  Photo credit:  National Weather Service.
I have to be careful about admitting this because people will throw rocks at me. There’s something about hurricanes that I just love.   Two somethings. 
First of all, there’s the raw power of Mother Nature.  [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on August 22nd, 2008

One of my favorite bloggers is my 18-year-old daughter, Shannon, and her Randomista site.  (I’m not the least bit prejudiced about it, either!)  She’s a bit of an academic and posts thoughtful essays about the random things in life that interest her (wonder where she gets that from), whether it’s raising funds for earthquake survivors [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on July 25th, 2008

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Over lunch with “Luna,” we heard the news that Professor Randy Pausch of the now-famous “Last Lecture” had passed away.  We both paused, tears in our eyes, to honor this man we had known only through his lecture and subsequent book on fulfilling childhood dreams.  He was an inspiration to [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on July 18th, 2008

Control Your Submissive Boy:
150 Ways for the New Domme to Master Her Man

This book is written within the context of a loving female-led marriage or long-term relationship between a man and a woman because we do not believe there is enough credible instruction and idea-generators available for the new domme or [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on July 3rd, 2008

This post has been removed due to harassment issues by readers searching for information on  Dr. Matt Dorman, who inspired this essay.  The article is now included in the book, Give Your Life Direction.

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on June 17th, 2008

If there’s one tip that I would have loved to have included in Gifts for the Goddess on a Warm Spring Morn, it’s something that one of my Circle members told me right after the book went to press–a great tip for drying herbs.
Granted, here in Florida, it can be quite hot in the spring [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on May 13th, 2008

Time is of the essence, they say, but maybe really, that’s just the essence of time.

At least 5 times in 24 hours, I’ve been reminded that “time is of the essence” and not to tarry.  In the back of my mind, I’ve also realized that nearly half of May has already come and gone and [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on April 29th, 2008

Book cover:  the second edition of Access, the first novel published by Spilled Candy Books.
If Reverend Jeremiah Wright’s allegations of the US Government developing AIDS to get rid of undesirables sounds like a conspiracy theory novel…it is. 
The book is called ACCESS, and it’s a spiritual suspense thriller written in 1996-97 and first published in 1999.  [...]

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