Copyright by Lorna Tedder on March 4th, 2010

Next time you’re in a health food store, ask the clerk to tell you his or her five favorite items.  Not what sells the best or what might help you with a particular problem—though you may ask about those as well—but which items have they tried that exceeded all expectations.  I did this [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on March 3rd, 2010

It’s my birthday and what am I thinking about?  Bella.  Bella from Stephenie Meyer’s vampire series that began with Twilight, a title which is still bizarre to me since Maggie Shayne wrote a few dozen vampire novels with twilight in the title and with a very strong following for her books well in advance of [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on February 27th, 2010

Photo credit by satosphere; creative commons license.  Article originally published in Third Degree Tilt.
In the middle of the journey of our life, I came to my self in a dark wood where the straight way was lost.—Dante
I came across this quote today. I’d forgotten it.
Dante would have been about 35 at the time, so I [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on February 24th, 2010

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What was it you just said?  “I’m getting old”?  Or maybe, “I must be getting old and decrepit”?  Rest assured, with that kind of self-talk, you’ll be feeling older than you are, faster than you can imagine.
How can I wake you up from giving yourself the [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on February 23rd, 2010

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As I write this, it is a Sunday afternoon  and I have a few friends coming over for dinner and an in-depth spiritual discussion.  Did I say a few?  I meant fifteen.  Or maybe ten because several just called and said they might not make it because of [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on January 27th, 2010

I still keep several pair of reading glasses on hand, but now they’re for friends who attend my monthly spiritual gatherings in my home. Photo by Lorna Tedder.

I discovered multi-focus contact lenses by accident but began wearing them with great purpose. You’d think that as a professional in my 40’s, I’d be a good demographic [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on January 21st, 2010

Isn’t this a fabulous photo of a cougar?  Photo copyright by digitalART2; Creative Commons License.
He’s 23 and has the physique of a demi-god, but that’s not what attracted me to him.  It’s more the fact that he’s a firefighter with a wicked sense of humor.  I love it when a man can keep me laughing…in [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on January 18th, 2010

NASA image, taken by the Hubble Space Telescope, was part of the Great Observatories Origins Deep Survey, a deep-sky study by several observatories to trace the evolution of galaxies.

Life is wide open and full of options.  And I don’t really know where to go from here.  I don’t recall ever having so many options open [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on March 22nd, 2009

Do regular check-ups and medical tests do more harm than good?  Does focusing on curing certain diseases or making war on what we don’t want bring those things to our doorsteps?    I’ve seen it in my personal life often enough to know that it certainly can.
Though I’m feeling very confident right now about my medical [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on March 19th, 2009

As my body tries to heal, I find that the usual drains on my energy are too much for me and I need to conserve and focus on myself.  Helping other people has been such a norm for so long that it’s hard to make the switch, but I am slashing through some of the [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on February 21st, 2009

Photo by Jean Goff; creative commons license   
 
I’m a big fan of looking over your shoulder every now and then to know how far you’ve come.  I can point to three different events in recent months that have been solid proof to me that I have my self-confidence back, and really, maybe even to a point [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on January 26th, 2009

I love this portait of a serene old woman and the way her life shines through her eyes.  Taken by Ron Aldaman and provided under a creative commons license.
Since I’ve been reconnecting with people from my past via social networking–as in, from my childhood, teen, and college years–I’ve been astonished to see what’s become of [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on January 8th, 2009

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There’s an edginess that’s been in the air for the past couple of hours.  It’s the kind of feeling you get after a fight with a lover or when a dream just got deferred. I can’t pin it down but it’s been intense.  Weighty.  It’s nothing new…but I wasn’t [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on December 28th, 2008

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I am losing one of my super powers, and I’m deeply disturbed by this.  It’s been gone for a little over a year, so it’s unlikely I’ll get it back.   
It has to do with the way my brain is wired, and it’s almost always been that anyone who knows about [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on December 24th, 2008

Lorna Tedder, adding a little spice to life…or at least to a wonderful Winter Solstice feast.  Photo by Aislinn Bailey; all rights reserved.
Most people I know make New Year’s resolutions, manage to give up on them in defeat within two weeks, and feel like failures for the rest of the year because they couldn’t manifest [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on December 6th, 2008

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Certain types of incense make me feel calmer, others put me in the mood for loving, and some just remind me of the serenity and sacredness of home.  Seems there’s some science now to back up my weird impressions. 
Discover Magazine reports  ( http://discovermagazine.com/2008/sep/26-smell-your-way-to-happiness ) that at least one incense has uplifting effects in an article [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on November 16th, 2008

Another fabulous photo from alicepopkorn; creative commons license.
For the past year, I’ve used “going with the flow of energy” as a guideline for making the most of my efforts.  On a very tiny scale, this principle was as simple as having a sudden urge to clean the house from top to bottom—and doing it while [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on October 24th, 2008

Photo by Lorna Tedder, copyright December 2006; Peaceful on the farm at sunset–a much gentler energy after Daddy died.
 
I hated him.  I loved him, too.  But this is probably the first time in my life that I’ve been grateful that Daddy was a tyrant.  It’s afforded me the opportunity to see his traits in others and [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on October 18th, 2008

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It’s a perfect example of the Law of Attraction in action, but  I tend to draw to me people who are or have been abuse victims. This was highlighted for me by The Elemental Muse (hi, Bev!) this week and through an intense EFT (tapping) session with AngelSu when I [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on August 19th, 2008

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I’ve been stress-free for four years.  Okay, not ENTIRELY stress-free.  There have been a few particularly stressful times—like the business-destroying rumor a year ago or a major family health issue or a sudden break-up of a promising new relationship.  But those are just spikes on the stress meter.  They [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on August 18th, 2008

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Rather than what’s not working for you, what IS working for you?
Normally, I try to do a simple assessment every New Moon, but I’m either behind or ahead this month—I’m not sure which yet.  It’s easy to look at all the things we do wrong, whether we do anything to [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on August 15th, 2008

Making time for live music in my home, courtesy of houseguests, Brian and Amy. Photo by Shannon Bailey.
I am The Poster Girl for Productivity, yet until this summer, I’ve felt that I wasn’t productive enough. I stressed myself so terribly much, too.   I would finish a list of 200 things in a weekend and fall in [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on August 14th, 2008

Photo by red nails; wrong city;  creative commons license.
A tiny metal spike in one’s foot is no fun at all, but I accept that the Universe is intent on bringing me something I really wanted by forcing me to stay home–much to my boss’ chagrin.  
The way this works–or so I’ve found over the years–I know that on by [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on August 2nd, 2008

Ghosts in the lights?  Sensitive to WiFi waves?   Hearing voices?  ADHD?  Depression?  Autism?  Or just plain old prophetic living in the End Times? 
Over the past four years, I’ve noticed how many of my daughters’ generation–kids born in the late 80’s/early 90’s–have been much more sensitive than my generation, in general.  They’re part of what’s known [...]

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Copyright by Lorna Tedder on July 28th, 2008

The rare gummy bear eclipse:  a little humor by fdecomite, used under a creative commons license.
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Every time there’s a New Moon, Full Moon, or an Eclipse, I get [...]

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