"Plan Be" for Attracting Back a Love You Lost

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If you’re longing to “attract back” that special someone, then what I’m about to tell you probably isn’t something you want to hear, but it’s something worth considering.  I say this as someone who has attracted many special people back into my life, not as someone who’ll roll her eyes and tell you to “Just get over him already! “


At one point in my life, I really wanted to attract back a special man who had been the perfect romantic partner for me.  He was everything I wanted and I knew he cared deeply for me as well, so I began using the Law of Attraction to bring him back into my life.  There were times when I used the “this man or someone better” caveat, but what I really wanted and focused on was him…on bringing this one specific person back into my life.  I missed him, and I missed our good times together.

Meanwhile, I had a long talk with myself about what I really wanted.  Why him?  What was it about him that I wanted?  Yes, there were many things about him that I loved, but I wanted that wonderful feeling of being in love again, too.  Loving him was about him but wanting to have those wonderful feelings of partnership was admittedly about me and what I wanted for myself.

I wanted the…

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